Lucas Leonardo- Author and Therapist

What are we looking for in love? One word can define what we look for in the other for an affective relationship: COMPLETUDE. We can say that seek affection, honesty, loyalty, howevwe, regardless of the characteristic, the movement is always directed towards the same purpose, completeness, CLOSURE. Bud then we have a question: are we not complete? I don't speak of completeness in the sense of the other giving me what I don't have, it is the exact opposite, it is the other allowing me to TRANSBIDE whats I have. The human being was made to love and demonstrate this love. When we are not allowed to demonstrate what we have, we fell like do not use the full potential. Let me overflow my love, and I will complete the other also allowing it to overflow. So one completes the other. When we finish a relationship, we say that the old relationship did not work out because we did not fell like being our potentiality, we could not overflow. The movement of completeness a

How is your mother? Do you want to see who she really is? Worked at the heart of the systemic constellation, the mother figure is the central axis of emotional reference to how we deal with our lives. The way we designs our relationship with our mother is the same way we projects with people around. Usually when one asks how the link between you and her is based, there is a moment of reflection on the way we were treated by her, especially in infancy, up to seven years of age. There is a chance to remember a grudge a little more ostentatious than the one you would now consider ideal for that moment, and his may have caused a sense of guilt over the accused "mistake". Go to that moment, if you can, and look like a mirror, as if she's been assaulting herself. Ask her, why are you attacking? Listen to her outburst, and at this moment she will humanize herself, you can forgive her, free her from the cord of sorrow that unites them, and install a cordon of lov

Why do not they want our success? Are you ready to leave? It is common situation that the people we love will turn against us. It may seem bizarre this process, but is happens much more than we realize. The question is, why? One of the motivations for this movement against the person we love, is the fear of not being important in our life, and moving forward withou it. Our success may be the projection of self abandonment, and there is a big chance that we have commited it with someone else too. A great ally we have for the journey is the time and learning it brings us. This ally shows us that by the way many will leave, and we will often leave, the important thing is the experience lived, of love and acceptance. Better than the time he stayed, it's the feeling he left. So, it remains to say that I desire his success, and even for his departure, after all, taught me to love and be loved. Good trip, good luck, from the bottom of my heart, success This text may be us